If You Really Knew Me, You Would Know...

If you really knew me, you’d know I am a mirror — and sometimes my words cut, not to harm, but to reveal truths that heal.

If you really knew me, you’d know I cry most days — I’m sensitive, I feel things deeply, and sometimes even foresee things.

If you really knew me, you’d know my most authentic self is when both live together: the sharp edge and the soft heart.

Remember that fun "Wear sunscreen" song? Baz Luhrmann said, “Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard. Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.”

For me, Northern California was Boulder. New York has an edge. It sharpens you, speeds you up, and makes you tougher. Boulder had a softness. It slowed me down, rooted me, and invited me to breathe. For a long time, I thought I had to choose — hard or soft.

But lately, I’ve been asking myself: What if I can bring my Boulder to New York?

Let’s take a moment to center.

Have you said hello to yourself today? Like really. Have you taken the time to listen to what you need in this moment? 💗

As an n’betweener, knowing yourself can be quite a quest:

• What do I need?

• Who am I when I take off the mask(s)?

• What matters to me?

• When do I most belong?

Unlike pop culture suggests, “finding the authentic you” isn’t a one-stop shop. It’s a journey. The greatest gift we can give ourselves is the intention to come closer to ourselves — even when we don’t know exactly what that looks like. The intention matters.

Soften towards yourself. Move closer.

When you move towards yourself, things settle. A connection arises within. You self-regulate. In that space, it’s easier to be present, to see clearly, to honor what’s vulnerable, to give yourself room to be.

If you really knew me, you’d also know this...

I deeply care about you, and I value your transformation. That’s why I’ve been offering 1:1 intensives — a full day together, designed to move you closer to what’s most tender inside. I create the agenda, tailor it to your needs, and hold the space therapeutically.

These intensives have been transformative, nourishing, and deeply moving. They happen in Colorado, LA, New York, and Paris.

Watch what people say about working with me here.

The intention is for you to get closer to you. To know YOU.

Does this sound nourishing to you?

Book a call with me, and we’ll talk through the details.

A loving hug to you

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