Move from FEAR to CLARITY.
You’re holding yourself back from your dreams. You know it, but clueless on what to do.
You need a change, but you’re terrified of doing it “wrong”. You move through life chained to the idea of what you “should” be doing, and end up feeling stuck and paralyzed.
Does this sound familiar?
I should go for that job.
I should be working out more.
I should be in partnership.
I should do something better with my free time.
All those “shoulds” are killing your spirit. You lose yourself, end up anxious, and unclear. You’ve trapped yourself into a belief of who you should be, but it’s not aligned with who you really are. This is hurting you.
You know you need a change, but you’re terrified of doing it “wrong.”
Change is daunting. Stepping into the unknown feels scary, uncertain, and vulnerable. How can you ensure you won’t fail?
If you can relate, you’re most likely a chameleon — a shape-shifter constantly trying to fit in and fulfill society’s expectations to avoid feelings of isolation. I call us n’betweeners™. We live at the intersection of oppression and privilege. We navigate conflicting identities, feeling caught between worlds, leaving us feeling lonely and misunderstood.
Here’s the good news:
There is a way to get unstuck and move towards the change you’ve been dreaming of. You just need a little support finding clarity in what you truly desire.
Move out of fear and find understanding by identifying what most matters to you in this 5-step roadmap.
Say hello to clarity, and goodbye to the “shoulds.”
With this guide, you’ll learn to start doing things congruently, and not correctly.
“This is transformative experience.
I am so grateful for this awareness and the tools to claim the things I most desire, stay grounded in my worthiness, and move from a place of self-trust.”
— Marisa - she, her
In this guide, you will
✓ Identify the specific fear that is holding you back
✓ Shift out of a scarcity mindset and into empowerment
✓ Integrate strategies that build a genuine belief in yourself
✓ Learn what matters most to you in your life
✓ Make a plan on how to move toward what you truly want.
Am I an n’betweener?
So what is an n’betweener?
An n’betweener is an individual who desires to know themself in their complex marginalized identities.
We show up in infinitely unique ways. We’re women of color, mixed-race, multicultural immigrants, queer Muslims, Latinx youth, and a multitude of other intersecting identities.
n’betweeners are multifaceted and beautiful beings, but it’s often a lonely experience. We’re not represented, so it’s common to internalize that we don’t belong anywhere.
Healing happens when we’re reflected and seen. That experience flourishes when we’re in community with one another.
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Hey, I’m Nora.
Nora Alwah is a TEDx speaker, psychotherapist, and mental health educator with a decade of experience.
Nora was born in the space n’between.
She is a mixed-race queer cis-woman of color, and a multilingual immigrant from Denmark and Comoros.
Nora coined the term n’betweener™ to capture the experience of individuals living at the intersection of privilege and oppression.
Individuals who struggle with a sense of belonging, regularly code-switch, feel misunderstood, and often hold themselves back from living their full potential.
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A community of like-minded people to support you in fulfilling your untapped dreams.
This is a home where all of you belongs. Be bold, without feeling “different.”
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