You’re often
misunderstood
You’re never [fill-in-the-blank] enough.
You mold, and code-switch to fit into different contexts.
You struggle finding belonging.
You make yourself smaller, and hold yourself back from your dreams.
You’re not alone.
We get you n’betweener
No more splitting yourself.
No more choosing between identities.
This is your global home where all your worlds meet.
Coucou | Hej | Edje | Hola|
I’m Nora, I’m the founder of n’betweener®
I was born in the space n’between.
I wanted to provide language to capture the lived experience of people like you and me—those of us burdened by the need to constantly prove and authenticate our identities, explaining ourselves to others.
So I coined the term n’betweener® to capture the experience of individuals living at the intersection of privilege and oppression.
I’m a mixed-race queer cis-woman of color, and a multilingual immigrant from Denmark and Comoros.
I’m a TEDx speaker, psychotherapist, and mental health educator with a decade of experience working with all the multifaceted versions of n’betweeners.
DON’T
BELONG
HERE nor THERE?!
your n’betweener
home
A 5 months coaching program and community for people with intersecting identities — here to unlock the dreams you’ve silenced for too long.
This is a home where every part of you belongs.
A place to be bold — without feeling “different.”
August 16th - December 13th, 2025
Are you an n’betweener?
“To be a n’betweener is to understand both the heads and the tails of every coin.”
— Raven D. (she, her)
“Even when I feel alone, being a n’betweener means I know I’m not.”
— Incarnación KR. (they, them)
“It means realizing that what felt like a singular experience is actually a shared one.”
— Sarah RG. (she, her)
An n’betweener is someone living at the intersection of multiple, often conflicting, social identities.
If this hits home, you just might be an n’betweener.
Welcome to your space.
Fitting in was never the plan for you.
You’re here to stand out and believe in your dreams.
Listen to that inner whisper. It’s there to tell you something.
Find a home for all of you
You know that exhale you take when you step into your home after a long day? There’s no better feeling than that, but what happens when you have multiple “homes?” Several identities and parts of yourself that take turns coming home and feeling comfortable?
The number one epidemic right now is loneliness.
It’s painful trying to belong to spaces where you feel like an outcast, different, too much, or even too little.
You know what it feels like to be a chameleon — constantly changing yourself to fit in with those around you.
You don’t have to do that in the nest. Bringing just you will do. There’s no need for acting or withholding, just be the unfiltered you. The nest is a community hub for the n’betweener who is, well, n’between. n’between a transition or change and needs some support.
It’s a home away from home.
A space where
you belong
— Jasmine S. (she her)
